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Candy and Edible Wedding Favor Ideas

Posted on July 13, 2008 - Filed Under wedding

You have found yourself searching the wedding websites, reading article after article, browsing through magazines, but you still have not found your perfect wedding favors. You’re not even sure at this point if you should give wedding favors out. You should, and here’s why, plus we’ll offer some simple solutions to your wedding favor dilemma.

Don’t underestimate the importance of wedding favors. They are the universal symbol of gratitude that the newly married couple extends to their guests. It is one of the most traditional aspects of the wedding - dating back many, many hundreds of years - extending thanks to your guests for sharing in your special day. Think about all the weddings you have attended, how would you feel if you did not receive a little “thank you” token of appreciation? The problem is, most guests expect favors - despite what some newer wedding articles might try to make you believe.

Your favors need not be expensive to convey a simple thank you. All your favors should do is be functional - something practical that people can use. How many times have you received a thank you gift only to place it on a shelf, or worse yet, tossed it in the trash, because you just did not know what to do with it. Unfortunately, some couples put very little thought into their wedding favors. Often it seems, that wedding favors are cast aside and treated as a last minute idea - leaving the puzzled wedding guests to scratch their heads and say, “What is this?”

Don’t fall into the category of silly unconventional favors! Give your guests something that serves a purpose. Why not edible wedding favors? Most people love a sweet treat, and if it can be consumed - it most likely will be used! From simple to gourmet, edibles including candy, chocolates, cookies, coffee, tea, hot cocoa, honey and mints, will satisfy the most discriminating wedding guest - and are available in price ranges to fit any bridal budget.Some tips to keep in mind when deciding on edible or candy wedding favors:

Chocolates need extra care, from shipping with ice packs during the summer months, to storage both in your home before the reception and at the catering facility for your reception. You don’t want melted favors!
Allergies: some people are allergic to chocolate, some people peanuts, others can’t have sugar. You may want to offer two different types of favors, and have your wait staff distribute them, stating they have sugar free options available. (Also good for the low-carb dieter who may want to indulge!)
Hard candies and mints make excellent choices, as they do not melt.
Jellybeans are loved by both children and adults alike. With so many colors and flavors available you can even match them to your wedding colors!
Don’t forget about drinks as edible wedding favors. Coffee, cappuccino, tea, hot cocoa, cocktail mixes, honey - all are items which can be consumed and used. They require no refrigeration, are relatively inexpensive, can be personalized, and go wonderfully with a little edible treat!
Cookies and miniature cakes - a small package of cookies (maybe even with a cookie cutter attached?) or a miniature cake they can take home - make delicious treats!
Jordan almonds are a traditional and lovely token of gratitude.

Whatever you decide to give as an edible wedding favor you can be sure it will not leave your guests wondering what to do with them. You wedding favors will not go to waste; they will be enjoyed! You can decorate them as you please in pretty packaging - sure to match your wedding decor. It’s the idea that your gift to your guests counts the most; that you took the time to think of them. If the wedding favor you give comes from the heart, it will leave a lasting impression and memory on your guests.

Erica Tevis is the owner of Two Hearts Wedding Favors http://www.twoheartsfavors.com. Vist them on the web and check out their large supply of candy and edible wedding favors, traditional wedding favors, themed favors, invitations, and wedding accessories.

Candles Make the Unity Ceremony

Posted on May 6, 2008 - Filed Under wedding

When planning your wedding you consider the colors for your gowns, tuxedos, and the decorations including flowers. You decide upon the ceremony you desire and if you choose to use the Unity Ceremony, you will need three candles.

The Unity Ceremony begins as your guests arrive. Two small candles are lit in the ceremony area with one larger candle remaining unlit between the smaller candles. Normally the unlit and larger candle is placed higher than the others.

There are other variations in which the first guest is given a candle that is lit by the head usher and each guest lights their candle until all gusts have a lit candle. The Mother of the Bride is normally the last guest and from her candle the Best Man lights his candle and those of the men in the wedding party, then lights the two smaller candles. The ceremony is ready to begin. Using candles in this way brings everyone together as part of your wedding.

As the Ceremony begins and as the two are joined as one, a predetermined point is chosen when the Bride and Groom together light the middle or larger candle and extinguishing the other two as a sign they have joined together. At this point the gusts, if you have them holding a lit candle, extinguish theirs leaving only one lit candle showing the Unity of the couple in their bond of marriage.

Imagination plays a part in your wedding plans. If you were going to use the Unity Ceremony perhaps you would like your wedding to have the aromatic effect as well as the sight effect. Using the scented candles either placed along the sides of the seating area or as your gift to your guests as mentioned to include them in the ceremony will fill the room or chapel with the scents you desire. With all the candles being lit as the ceremony begins, it will be remembered long after you have headed out on your new life’s journey.

In choosing candles it is best to coordinate the scent you desire with the flowers you have decided upon. Secondly you want the colors of the candles also to blend with the flower colors of your choice. The idea is to fill the room or chapel with your desired sight and aromatic aura to help your guest to remember your wedding.

If you choose to give guests a candle, to be part of your Wedding Unity Ceremony, you also just gave them a special wedding favor that will remind them of your wedding. As long as that candle lasts, your wedding will be remembered. The scent will remind them. You will be in their thoughts. It’s a wonderful way to thank them for being a part of your wedding.

Wedding planning is the key. You must decide if you wedding budget can support the idea of giving a candle as a wedding favor, or just having them along the side of the seating area. You can count on at least a dollar for each candle to give to your guests if you choose to give them one making them a part of your wedding. Or if the thought of candles being risky during your ceremony, that could be your wedding favor give at the reception as a place setting, or which every way you decide upon to give them a special thank you for being present.

Making your wedding perfect is your goal. If you want to add the special aromatic scent or just add to the scent of your flowers, candles can make that happen for you. Just maybe that little candle you give will also spark a little romance in each of your guests’ life. When they have gone home and light the candle you gave them, well you think on that a second. You want your joy to be passed to them as well. Your day joined with others all sharing in the feelings that only people in love understand. What a way to say thanks.

You can also add the aromatic candles within your reception to continue that special feeling from your wedding ceremony. Combining sights, sounds, and aromatic conditions will make your reception very memorable for everyone, and mostly for you.

It’s your wedding. Fill it with the senses you will remember all your life. Remember to have someone save your Unity Ceremony Candles. Two you can light just to remember your day, and one to be your Anniversary Candle!

Bobbie & Dan Grasser offers a selection of Aromatherapy candles to aid your Wedding or as Wedding Favors. You can find a selection of candles to complement your wedding at http://www.bgscandles.com where special orders are their specialty.

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