The Art Of Wishing On Weddings
Posted on July 25, 2008 - Filed Under wedding
A wedding is a very special occasion. A couple deciding to live together forever till they live. Make a family, with children who may become leaders of tomorrow in their own fields. As the time goes forward, weddings are losing their special place. Who knows when the newly weds will file for divorce? Earlier it was not so simple. Divorces were not looked at as a possibility to be exercised easily. How does one wish a newly wedded couple?
What are wishes? What is the role of wishes in a couple’s life? Why do we wish them a happy life together? Let us examine. The first role of a wish is to join the couple in their happiness. Share the happiness. “Yes, I am very happy for both of you. I feel very happy myself on this beautiful occasion. I wish you a lovely life together. Please enjoy your life together. Fight your battles together and share your fruits of labor together. Please bring new children in this world. Make them happy citizens of a happy world.” We have such thoughts and convey our thoughts to the couple in many words. Sometimes, it so happens that watching everybody wishing the couple, we all become mechanical in our wishes. The warmth gets lost. The words lose the deeper meaning and become more of a ceremony to be finished as soon as possible.
We can avoid this happening. When you attend a wedding next, look at the couple carefully. Imagine their future life together. The children, the middle age, and growing old together till death separates them. Imagine the whole life that they will live together. Imagine the pains and the pleasures of their life. Ignore looking at the decorations, the guests and everything else. Focus only upon the couple and you will find a transformation taking place in your thoughts. After this your wishes will be spoken from the heart and your wishes will truly impact the lives of the couple. Make your wishes help the couple in every way. Hundreds of such heart spoken wishes will bring forward such a change that the couple will surely have a beautiful life. Wishes have power. We may not be able to understand that power. But if wishes are made from the heart, that power can destroy many obstacles. Please use that power, because you have it.
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Tags: wedding, wedding speech, Wedding vow, wedding wishes, wishHow to Make Your Wedding Vows Something You’ll Remember Forever
Posted on May 5, 2008 - Filed Under wedding
If you’re going the increasingly popular route of personalizing your own wedding vows, you’re probably looking for some tips to make your vows as special, meaningful, and eloquent as you can. This is something that will take time beforehand so that you can prepare yourself and become completely comfortable with what you’re saying. Remember, you’re not just saying pretty words, you’re stating your wedding vows — words from the heart that aim to express if only a fraction of how important this bond of love is to you.
The most important thing you can do is to rehearse your vows until you know them like the back of your hand. Work towards making the words sound as though they are as natural as if you’d thought them up right there, and were speaking from that little touch of Shakespeare in your brain. This will diminish hesitancy and constant note-reading, and will give a much more heartfelt impression.
Here are some other tips:
* Come up with certain “landmarks” within your vows that will act as mental cues to help you to continue without pausing to remember what comes next.
* Rehearse your vows out loud, until you feel completely “conversationally comfortable” with them. This will make you feel secure in your words, and will help you to concentrate more on the way you are saying them, instead of just remembering what you are saying. Rehearsing your vows out loud will also help you to trust yourself more with the words you’ve chosen, and you will feel much less artificial when the time comes that you are saying them to your future spouse.
* Keep eye contact with your future spouse. This is not only romantic to watch for those attending the wedding, but it will be all the more meaningful to your true love. And what’s more, you’ll find yourself feeling the full emotional force of your words as you gaze adoringly into the eyes of the one who is gazing adoringly back at you.
* Speak clearly, and be sure of your pronunciation before you get up in front of everyone.
* Remember that you aren’t the only one who is nervous. Smile lovingly, hold hands if it is appropriate, and truly feel the words that you’re saying. Let your future spouse feel at ease because you love him or her just that much.
* Keep a good mental attitude. Don’t think to yourself, “How am I going to survive this?” Instead, think, “This is it; I’m joining with the person I love. This is the best day of my life.”
* Vary your voice tonality and speed as you say your vows. This helps you to convey energy when you need to, and when you slow down a bit, you’ll show true heart.
Practice your vows, be ready to say them, and you’ll find that you’ll be much less frightened, much more thrilling and, above all, a true romantic. You’ll enjoy yourself a great deal more and will remember this tremendous moment forever.
Chris Simeral is the creator of The Ultimate
Wedding Vow Toolkit, the wedding-coordinator-approved home-study course for
couples personalizing or renewing their wedding vows. Couples from all over the United States, Great Britain, Canada and New Zealand have used the kit to create truly memorable and romantic
wedding vows. Sign up for the free wedding vow mini-course at http://www.weddingvowtoolkit.com.
Wedding Vow
Posted on March 29, 2008 - Filed Under wedding
The wedding vow is going to be important, as this is a statement you make to your new spouse, husband or wife that is going to express your love for each other. The wedding vows of your choice can be short and to the point, or you can make an elaborate story of your vows. You will find that your hobbies, your interests and the things you love the most are going to have an impact on the wedding vows that you finally do choose. Wedding vows can be written by yourself, by the minister, or you can have someone you now write your wedding vows for you.
How are you going to know what type of wedding vow you should be using and stating in your wedding? Depending on the type of person you are, the type of wedding you are having and your dreams for this day - these are all going to play a big part in what you are going to say during your wedding vow for the day. The wedding vow you do choose, no matter what, should relate information that you are interested in living and being with the other person for the rest of your life because you love each other. Love is the reason why a wedding is going to take place and your wedding vow should reflect that point if nothing else at all.
Where can you find out about wedding vows you need to write? Simply sitting down with a piece of paper and your thoughts is going to give you information about the wedding vows you should consider stating. The wedding vow that you write yourself should be a reflection of your thoughts and feelings, and no one else’s. Using a few adjectives, along with the thoughts and expressions about how you want to live and be together for the rest of your life is really all you are going to need while you are writing your wedding vow.
Using the original wedding vow that is part of the ceremony is often what many couple wants to use. The wedding vow that is all a part of the wedding ceremony is going to simply state that you will love, care and be together for the rest of your life. Yes they are simple wedding vows, but they are meaningful and will states everything that you need to know during the wedding ceremony. Using prewritten wedding vows, that are already established in the wedding ceremony will make one less thing that you are a part of the couple is going to have to worry about getting done and ready for the wedding ceremony. Have fun on your wedding day and remember to state your vows slowly so your soon to be spouse will remember them for a lifetime.
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